My love of podcasts is no secret. I seriously listen all the time. They’re perfect for when I’m cooking or running errands. I like that I can be entertained or learn something when I’m doing the most mundane stuff. It’s like next level talk radio. There are some really good podcasts out there too and more popping up every day.
Recently I was listening to India Arie’s podcast. Yes, that India Arie! Did you know she has a podcast? I don’t know how I stumbled up on it but I did and I’m digging it so far. It’s called Songversation. She chooses one of her songs and kind of speaks about the story behind the song. She dives into what was going on in her life when writing the song and her feelings about how place in the industry. She also applies the songs to real life situations. It’s nice to hear her sharing her struggles and successes in such an unfiltered and relatable way. I’m loving how so many celebs are diving in with the idea of just being authentic.
Living your dream? Now What?
One episode I was listening to recently found her speaking about dreams. Um, you know I was all ears! I’m always down to talk, think and live your dream. She talked about a time when she was in a funk because she had achieved all her dreams career-wise. She was able to do things for her family and herself because her career was going so well. Those were the things that she’d hoped for and it had all come true. She’d checked so much of the dream stuff off her list but something was missing. Even after being successful in that massive way, she wasn’t truly happy. Of course, the issues she had before money followed her even with money. She talked about how achieving your dreams doesn’t fix your stuff. You still have to work on you to find real peace.
It’s so interesting to hear her perspective. No matter how many times I hear a successful person share this message, it resonates. There’s this idea out there that money solves it all. When the truth is having money and success is more likely to amplify who you already are – flaws and all. We’ve seen no shortage of celebrity stories that prove money and fame isn’t some sort of cure all. People still struggle to find some sliver of peace and joy. On the outside looking in, we think they have everything. These stories are always a reminder that having “everything” has nothing to do with your bank account.
Gotta Deal With Our Stuff
If we still haven’t dealt with issues of insecurity, body issues, feeling like an imposter and any other number of complexes so many people carry – money won’t be the healer. Money won’t even matter. As I get older, I find it easier to deal with my stuff and just be honest with myself. I don’t mind peeling back the layers and seeing myself as I really am. There are a few people in my life who I share those things with and who check me when I need it. On the flip side, they also remind me of my awesomeness and don’t allow me to be too hard on myself.
When I look around, in many ways, I’m living my dream out and working on others. But getting to that space didn’t solve all my issues. Regardless of what people think, looking in from the outside, I’m still working through some stuff. India’s message spoke to me! As important as I believe it is to follow our dreams, I don’t think it’s the end all, be all.
In no way do I think going after and reaching and living your dream will fix whatever else is not quite right. I’ve been working on me and I know that I’m a never ending project. I’m getting more comfortable with calling myself out on my own junk. More than that, I’m making an effort to just be better. I owe that to myself. Just like I owe it to myself to chase every single dream. It’s all self care, really. And we all know how necessary that is.
I wanna know, have you reached a goal and still felt empty or wondering now what?
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I heard so much about podcasts ! I really need to get on board . Thank you for this awesome post !
Love this! We really have to learn how to appreciate what we do have, especially when it is something we worked hard for, instead of moving on to the next thing without completely relishing in the moment!
-Jennifer
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You know I heard so much about podcast but not sure how to get on board or do it. Thank you for sharing this post. I really need to start thinking on doing podcast.
I really look forward to start my own business but still not figure out. Otherwise we are happy and healthy family. Blessed but still motivated to do more. Thanks for sharing about your ideas.
I really want to start my business but still figure out. Otherwise happy and healthy family, Blessed. Doing something for my own is in my wish list.
Such an interesting thing to think about. I actually feel like this happens more times than we realize. Sometimes the things that we set our sights on ends up not really fulfilling us like we thought we would. A good reminder to be careful what we wish for and think about what our goals are.
I think I am the only person left who has never listened to a podcast! Always chase your dreams and never give up! You can DO IT ; )!